Photo taken from weddingrepublic.com* |
Photo taken from ourwishingwell.com |
- Include a very tastefully written Wishing Well card. Here is an example of one: "For those considering offering a gift at our forthcoming wedding, we both understand how time consuming and difficult it is to find the perfect gift. To save you that time and stress, we would be even more delighted with a cash donation instead. It would be the perfect gift for us." The wonderful Knot has some great tips as well: The Knot Wishing Well Cards. Or, just google "Wishing Well cards", and a ton of examples will pop up for you for some inspiration!
- Set up a wedding gift registry where your guests can contribute cash towards your gifts. I found this great site, ourwishingwell.com, where it looks like you can create your own list of items that you need, and your guests can indicate how much money they want to put towards that item for your wedding. This way, you will still get cash, but it will be put towards larger things that you may need more than your average toaster oven or dish towel.
- Set up a Wedding Honeymoon Fund. Honeyfund.com is a popular one. In the same way that Our Wishing Well works, on Honey Fund you can set up lists for people to put money towards parts of your wedding honeymoon, ie: airfare, excursions, car rental, dining, etc. This way, the money you were going to spend on your honeymoon, can now be put towards something else for your future.
- Register for gift cards only. I always thought this would be weird to do, until I found cardavenue.com! This website literally just gives you the means to register for gifts cards only for your wedding - so if you don't really need anything specific right now, you can register for gift cards at stores that you know you can use money at later down the road, like Home Depot, Target, Amazon, etc.
- Word of mouth. So your Mom really wants to help you? Have her spread the word out to the family that you guys can really benefit more from receiving cash as a wedding gift... same goes with the groom's parents - they can tell their side of the family about your wedding gift wishes. Your parents can do the dirty work for you! ;)
I really do believe people would understand your need for cash over household items you don't need - especially those who have gone through the wedding business already! But it really is all dependent on what your guests are like. Only you and your spouse-to-be truly know, and so you will need to gauge on how you think your wedding guests will react to using any or all of the suggestions I've given you. If you do decide to go with a traditional wedding registry, then the key is to just truly pick what you only need, as well as only registering at places you actually shop at! This way, you can still add gift cards to the wedding registry as an option and you can also return anything after your wedding for store credit.
Ultimately, always be grateful for whatever your wedding guests may graciously give you - remember, gift giving is not an obligation for your guests, so the thought truly is what counts!
* This photo I found allowed me to stumble upon weddingrepublic.com, a great wedding site and blog that I think you readers can find some great advice on! It also has this blog post which furthers my argument that asking for wedding cash is ok! Top 5 Reasons To Use A Cash Wedding Registry.
* This photo I found allowed me to stumble upon weddingrepublic.com, a great wedding site and blog that I think you readers can find some great advice on! It also has this blog post which furthers my argument that asking for wedding cash is ok! Top 5 Reasons To Use A Cash Wedding Registry.